Jan. 30, 2025

From Outsider to Industry Connected: My Networking Playbook | EF EP 84

From Outsider to Industry Connected: My Networking Playbook | EF EP 84

Want to know how I went from being an awkward outsider to building genuine industry relationships? In this episode, I break down my complete networking playbook - including the FBI agent strategy that changed everything. If you've ever felt uncomfortable at industry events or struggled to turn connections into opportunities, this conversation will transform how you approach networking in dance music.

From being the kid sitting alone at birthday parties to now running successful industry events, I share how I overcame social anxiety to build authentic relationships in the dance music industry. 

Key Takeaways:

  • The FBI agent strategy for researching before events
  • How to approach different networking environments (clubs vs. industry events)
  • Converting conversations into opportunities without being opportunistic
  • Why most networking fails (and how to fix it)
  • Building relationships that last beyond the first meeting
  • The 3-6 month rule for asking favors
  • How to follow up without being annoying

Ready to level up your networking game? Join me for my live networking workshop on Tuesday, February 11th from 5-6pm CST, exclusively for Patreon members. We'll work through specific scenarios, practice conversation starters, and create your personal networking strategy. Join Strategy Circle at patreon.com/oliviamancuso to secure your spot.

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Video Editor/Audio Engineer: James Fixx

Chapters

00:00 - From Awkward Outsider to Networking Pro

02:58 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs in Networking

05:51 - Practical Networking Strategies

08:49 - In-Person Networking Environments

12:08 - The FBI Agent Approach to Networking

14:51 - Building Genuine Relationships Over Time